Posted on September 11, 2019 at 5:40 PM by Sadye Scott-Hainchek

In our seventh-grade English class, Mrs. Segura looked at us and asked the class, “If I called Sadye’s house and asked for Sadye, and she had answered the phone, how would she respond?”

Our classmates all answered, “Speaking.”

They were correct, of course, but they weren’t providing the answer Mrs. Segura was seeking.

Should they have said “This is she” or “This is her”?

Grammar Girl has great news (belatedly) on that question — language experts have mostly conceded defeat when it comes to pronouns after linking verbs.

Technically, one should use the subjective or nominative case (I, you, he/she/it, we, they), which at best sounds incredibly formal and at worst sounds wrong.

(So Mrs. Segura wanted her students to respond with, "This is she.")

But grammarians — if not middle-school English teachers — now say it's acceptable in most (casual) usage to use the objective case (me, you, him/her/it, us, them).

Read the rest of Grammar Girl's post to understand why it's "woe is me" and not "woe is I" and to learn how to conjugate a verb following "It is I who ..."

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Are there language maps that show where the "correct" form is commonly used? (Sept 16, 2023)
Warren Jones | 9/16/23 at 10:28 PM
I refuse to use the "proper" form, but I am very interested in where it is used. Do you know of language maps that show where the "correct" form is commonly used?
Warren Jones | 9/16/23 at 10:25 PM
Long ago, I decided upon which personal pronouns to use with linking verbs, and they weren’t the “correct” ones (stilted and affected); nevertheless, I still maintain an interest in the subject.More specifically, while researching the subject, I learned that the “correct” usage predominates in certain parts of the country. I have to assume that they are is in the Northeast, but I’m not sure. Anyway, I would certainly appreciate it if you could enlighten me on this subject. While you’re at it, you might comment on the usage in England. I am eighty-five, and if “I am he,” is commonly used somewhere, you’d think I would have noticed by now. I haven’t, so I have to wonder if it’s my memory or my “tin ear.” While researching the subject a few years ago, I found that the "correct" (affected and stilted) forms are actually commonly used in certain parts of the country. ,
Warren Jones | 9/5/23 at 5:20 AM
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